Some of you are going to get to the point where you occasionally have these really awesome nights out. Either you're going to pull a super hot BBW girl, or you're going to feel like almost every girl you talked to wanted you. The problem with this is that you're not going to be able to do this night in and night out. It's going to feel like it's totally random. I have news for you: it isn't random. It's not because of some holiday, it's not because there seemed to be more BBW out, and it's not because you were in the right place at the right time. There was something about you that caused you to have that awesome moment or night out.

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I'll tell you guys what was the most difficult thing for me in my development as a player or PUA. It was figuring out what made me tick. For example, I know that I can be very funny. However, I never knew why I was funny on some nights, and quiet during the others. I also knew that I could take BBW home in under ten minutes flat, but there were many nights where it seemed like I couldn't make it happen.

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This is going to be your most difficult task in your developing career as a player. You're going to grow frustrated and anxious. It's just not going to come to you right away. It's going to be a long process of trial and error. When you have an awesome night, you're not only going to have to look at everything you did, but you're going to have to see if there is any consistency. Let's talk about me being funny and using my humor to pull women. How do I get to that point? Well, first there is the energy. I absolutely have to have a full stomach and some kind of caffeine or energy drink. Otherwise, I'm just going to be tired and lazy when I go out.

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I also realized that I have to have more than just one person with me when I go out. If I don't have an audience, I don't really feel like being all crazy and retarded. I also realized that I don't just come out of nowhere and start being funny. I have to be in a good mood and laughing and joking with my friends for awhile in order for me to be my best when I'm out. It also helps if I briefly run through my own guides before I go out.

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That stuff sounds simple, but imagine how many nights I had to go out with just one friend. Imagine how many times I went out without any caffeine. And imagine how many nights I went out without first being in a good mood and laughing and joking with my friends before approaching oversized women. Those are all nights where the necessity of those "crutches" so to speak aren't so obvious.

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However, once you figure out what makes you as a person behave the way that you do when you're having a really awesome night of gaming women, it is complete bliss each and every time that you go out. What makes you better with women isn't always necessarily game or any kind of self improvement; it's figuring out what makes you tick when everything seems to be going your way.

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